Now that we have black children, I can honestly say that it's never felt hard to me. Not once.
So I joyfully pass along this article that a dear friend shared with me. She and her hubby are in the process of bringing home a sweet baby girl from Congo. I'll just go ahead and put the whole thing here rather than link it, in the hopes that I'm improving your odds of actually reading it! It's short and it's full of beautiful, Biblical truths.